Witten: Corona hat auch Paare in die Krise gestürzt

Paartherapie

Witten: Corona hat auch Paare in die Krise gestürzt

Aktualisiert: 18.08.2020, 09:00 | Lesedauer: 7 Minuten

Ein junges Elternpaar streitet sich vor seinem Kind. Die Paare, die eine Paartherapie machten, würden dies auch mit der Hoffnung verbinden, die Beziehung für ein Kind oder für die Kinder zu retten, sagt der Wittener Paartherapeut Thomas Mürmann-Golding.

Foto: Silvia Marks / dpa

Witten. In Corona-Zeiten fliegen Fremdgänger auf. Bei Paartherapeut Thomas Mürmann-Golding aus Witten suchen derzeit viele junge Eltern Hilfe.

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„Wir als Therapeuten suchen Lösungen, mit denen beide zufrieden sind“

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„Viele Paare kommen erst sehr spät zu uns. Da wurde viel Geschirr zerschlagen“

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„Es geht dabei nicht nur um romantische Liebe und Leidenschaft“

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