Film über die Elternschule in Buer soll ins Kino kommen
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Das Filmteam hat auch Vorträge des Kinder- und Jugendpsychologen Dietmar Langer vor den Eltern der Patienten dokumentiert.
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Gelsenkirchen-Buer. Dietmar Langer hat an der Kinder- und Jugendklinik am Bergmannsheil Buer die Elternschule begründet. Ein Kinofilm dokumentiert nun seine Arbeit.
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