Selbsthilfe

Trauernde Eltern finden Halt in Nevigeser Gruppe

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In der Glocke trifft sich die neue Gruppe des Vereins „Leben ohne Dich“ jeden dritten Donnerstag.

In der Glocke trifft sich die neue Gruppe des Vereins „Leben ohne Dich“ jeden dritten Donnerstag.

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Neviges.  Der Tod ihres Sohnes Stephan hat das Ehepaar Böttger zutiefst erschüttert. In ihrer neuen Selbsthilfegruppe wird nicht nur geredet.

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