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Dilşad Budak-Sarıoğluaus Velbert tourt mit der Leseperformance "Türkland" durch Deutschland

Dilşad Budak-Sarıoğluaus Velbert tourt mit der Leseperformance "Türkland" durch Deutschland

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Velbert.  Die ehemalige Velberterin Dilşad Budak-Sarıoğlu hat ein Buch geschrieben über das Leben zwischen zwei Kulturen.

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Aufgewachsen am Kostenberg

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Die Klassenkameraden machen Sprüche über Türken

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Burnout nach dem Studium

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Bei einer Reise nach Istanbul lernt sie ihren Mann kennen

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Im Job in der Türkei gibt es Enttäuschungen

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DREI FRAGEN AN DILSAD BUDAK-SARIOGLU

2 Xjf jtu ebt Mfcfo jo Jtubocvm@

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3 Xbt ibmufo Tjf wpo efo Fsephbo.Xåimfso jo Efvutdimboe@

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4 Xbt tbhfo Tjf {v efs Efcbuuf vn ×{jm@

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