Bucket List

Was ich unbedingt noch erleben will, bevor ich sterbe

Fallschirm springen? Wollen viele einmal im Leben auf ihrer Liste abgehakt wissen.

Fallschirm springen? Wollen viele einmal im Leben auf ihrer Liste abgehakt wissen.

Foto: Mauricio Graiki

Essen.   Auf der „Bucket List“ steht, was man vor dem Ableben unbedingt noch erreichen will: krasse Reisen etwa. Einem Zeitgeist-Phänomen auf der Spur.

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„Schon kleine Reisen sind wie Yoga für den Körper“

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Die Liste kann auch Druck und Frust erzeugen

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Nicht verwechseln mit To-Do-Listen

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