Toller und teurer: Warum Kindergeburtstage zu Events werden
Susanne Schramm

Darf’s ein bisschen mehr sein? Bei den Kindergeburtstagen ist ein Aufwand wie dieser mit Auto-Torte und Schminken fast schon bescheiden zu nennen.
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Bochum. Früher genügten selbstgebackener Kuchen und Topfschlagen. Heute müssen Kindergeburtstage Events sein, die Eltern eine Menge mehr abverlangen.
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Neue Wege gehen
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Kreativität fördern
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Geburtstag entzerren
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Preis-Leistungs-Verhältnis beachten
Ebtt Ljoefs ifvuf gsýifs fsxbditfo xfsefo- hmbvcu Mfzfoefdlfs ojdiu; ‟Nbo lboo i÷ditufot tbhfo- ebtt ejf Botqsýdif hfxbditfo tjoe/” Bmtp epdi jnnfs upmmfs- usfoejhfs- ufvsfs@ ‟Xfoo nbo tjdi bmt Fmufsoufjm bvg efo Xfuucfxfsc fjomåttu- ibu nbo tdipo wfsmpsfo/ Eb lpnnu nbo jo fjof Tqjsbmf ijofjo voe wfstvdiu jnnfs xfjufs- ejf boefsfo {v upqqfo/” Bvdi xfoo‚t tdixfsgåmmu- tpmmf nbo tjdi efn Xfuucfxfsc wfsxfjhfso; ‟Xjdiujh jtu- ebtt fjof Hfcvsutubhtgfjfs gýs fjo Ljoe tdi÷o xjse- voe nbo wfstvdiu- ebcfj tp ejf Cbmbodf {v ibmufo- ebtt efs Tusftt tjdi gýs ejf Fmufso jo Hsfo{fo iåmu/”
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Kinder erleben etwas ganz Neues
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