Samenvermittlung: Drei Spender erzählen, was sie antreibt
Jessica Hock
Warum spenden Männer Samen? Wie fühlt es sich an, zu wissen, dass da draußen Kinder von einem herumlaufen? Wir haben drei Samenspender danach gefragt.
Foto: Sina Schuldt / dpa
Essen. Mit einer Samenspende helfen Männer Paaren, sich ihren Kinderwunsch zu erfüllen. Wir haben drei Spender gefragt, was sie antreibt.
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