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Patchworkfamilien: Zwischen Sorgerechtsdrama und neuer Liebe

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Die Patchwork-Eltern Sandra Atmaca und Julian Oberst haben vor kurzem ihr erstes gemeinsames Kind bekommen.

Die Patchwork-Eltern Sandra Atmaca und Julian Oberst haben vor kurzem ihr erstes gemeinsames Kind bekommen.

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Essen.  In ihre neue Beziehung bringt Sandra zwei Töchter und irgendwie auch ihren Ex-Mann mit. Über Probleme und Zusammenhalt in einer Patchworkfamilie.

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Die Zahl an Patchworkfamilien in Deutschland nimmt stetig zu

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Herausforderungen der jungen Patchworkfamilie: Umzug, Sorgerechtsstreit und wenig Kommunikation

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„Papa bleibt Papa“

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Das eigene Ego runterschlucken

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