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Mama Alleinverdienerin, Papa Hausmann: In nur zwei von 100 Familien ist das so aufgeteilt. Erinnerungen an eine ungewöhnlich normale Kindheit.
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Papa Hausmann, Mama Alleinverdienerin – für mich war das normal
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Mutter arbeitet Vollzeit, Vater Teilzeit – nur in zwei von 100 Familien
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Mein Vater machte seinen Job, und er machte ihn gut
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Vater als Hausmann – „Ja, kann der das denn überhaupt?“
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Studie: Jeder fünfte Deutsche findet Haus- und Erziehungsarbeit „unmännlich“
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