Jetzt kommen die Papablogger: Väter, die wie Mütter denken
Katrin Böcker

Vom Karrieretypen zum Vollzeit-Vater: Heiner Fischer will auch andere Männer dazu ermutigen, die Familie zur Priorität zu machen.
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Mülheim/Krefeld. Jonas Koziorowski und Heiner Fischer bloggen online aus Vatersicht über Familie und Erziehung. Gelesen werden ihre Beiträge meist von Frauen.
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Die Follower wollen wissen, wie sie anders machen können als ihre eigenen Eltern
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„Viele Männer wollen sich selbst nicht zurücknehmen“
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Einige können kaum glauben, dass ein Mann typische „Mütter-Aufgaben“ übernimmt
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