Velbert: Wenn die eigene Mutter plötzlich Pflegefall wird

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Velbert: Wenn die eigene Mutter plötzlich Pflegefall wird

15.07.2021, 12:15 | Lesedauer: 4 Minuten

Seine Angehörigen zu pflegen und gleichzeitig voll berufstätig zu sein, ist eine große Belastung.

Foto: Britta Pedersen / dpa

Velbert. Thomas Draganski hat drei Jahre lang seine Mutter gepflegt. Hätte sein Arbeitgeber ihn nicht unterstützt, wäre er selbst zum Pflegefall geworden.

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Ein Kraftakt

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Umdenken setzt ein

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Ein Termin-Marathon

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Psychische Belastung

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„Musste mich nicht rechtfertigen“

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Seit 2009 auf der Tagesordnung

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Ansprechpartner

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