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Wie Mülheimer Paare durch die Corona-Krise gekommen sind

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Volker Rohse und Annette Kistner von der Evangelischen Beratungsstelle für Erziehungs-, Ehe- und Lebensfragen in Mülheim haben viele Paare und Familien in der Corona-Pandemie begleitet.

Volker Rohse und Annette Kistner von der Evangelischen Beratungsstelle für Erziehungs-, Ehe- und Lebensfragen in Mülheim haben viele Paare und Familien in der Corona-Pandemie begleitet.

Foto: Oliver Müller / FUNKE Foto Services

Mülheim.  Die Eheberater der Evangelischen Beratungsstelle Mülheim haben erlebt, wie Corona die Paare belastet hat. Manche gingen gestärkt durch die Krise.

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Gewohnte Strukturen fielen weg, der Wechsel zwischen Nähe und Distanz auch

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Altersgruppe bis 40 Jahre hat in Mülheim das Paar-Verhältnis schlechter bewertet

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In der Paar-Beratung geht es um die Themen Wünsche, Bedürfnisse, Wertschätzung

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