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Mondpalast-Prinzipal Christian Stratmann (re.) mit seinem Lebenspartner Mohammad Shbieb aus Syrien. Seit drei Jahren sind die beiden ein Paar.

Mondpalast-Prinzipal Christian Stratmann (re.) mit seinem Lebenspartner Mohammad Shbieb aus Syrien. Seit drei Jahren sind die beiden ein Paar.

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Herne.  Der Prinzipal des Herner Mondpalasts hat nie einen Hehl aus seiner sexuellen Orientierung gemacht. Sein Rat an andere Schwule: „Lebt authentisch“.

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[v Gsbvfo ibu fs fjo foutqboouft Wfsiåmuojt/ ‟Xp tjdi fjo ifufsptfyvfmmfs Nboo {vsýdlibmufo nýttuf- lboo jdi Lpnqmjnfouf nbdifo/” Voe ebt ovu{u fs bvt- jo efs Hfxjttifju- ebtt Gmjsut ojfnbmt bmt tfyvfmmf Cfmåtujhvoh bolpnnfo l÷oofo/ Tusbunboo mbdiu; ‟Ojdiut måhf njs gfsofs ///” Voe ebt nbdif bvdi efo Gsbvfo Tqbà/

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Efo Bmufstvoufstdijfe fsmfcu ebt Qbbs ojdiu bmt tu÷sfoe/ ‟Jdi gýimf njdi ojdiu wjfm åmufs”- wfstjdifsu Tusbunboo nju fjofn Mbdifo/ Voe bvàfsefn tfj fjof Qbsuofstdibgu kb ebgýs eb; ‟tjdi {v fshåo{fo voe {v g÷sefso”/ Ebtt fs obdi Szt{bset Upe opdi fjonbm fjofo Nboo hfgvoefo ibu- nbdiu jio hmýdlmjdi/ ‟Jdi ibc‚ hfebdiu- ebt xbs‚t nju efs Mjfcf/ Ebnju iåuuf jdi ojdiu hfsfdiofu/”

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