Bei aller Liebe

Pfarrer aus Gladbeck: „Ich hätte gerne Kinder gehabt“

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Propst André Müller spricht mit der WAZ Gladbeck über sein Leben als Pfarrer. Hier sitzt er in der Lamberti-Kirche an der Horster Straße in Gladbeck.

Propst André Müller spricht mit der WAZ Gladbeck über sein Leben als Pfarrer. Hier sitzt er in der Lamberti-Kirche an der Horster Straße in Gladbeck.

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Gladbeck.  Gladbecker Propst André Müller entschied sich mit 27 Jahren für ein Leben ohne Ehe und Kinder. Warum er auf die Liebe dennoch nicht verzichtet.

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