Soziale Ängste

Sozialphobie: Wenn Kontakt zu anderen Menschen zur Qual wird

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Soziale Ängste können das Leben massiv einschränken. Eine Gelsenkirchenerin erzählt, wie es ihr damit ergeht. (Symbolbild)

Soziale Ängste können das Leben massiv einschränken. Eine Gelsenkirchenerin erzählt, wie es ihr damit ergeht. (Symbolbild)

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Gelsenkirchen.  Wenn die Angst vor Ablehnung das Leben bestimmt, können soziale Kontakte zur Qual werden. Eine Gelsenkirchenerin erzählt von ihrer Sozialphobie.

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Angst übernimmt in immer mehr Bereichen des Lebens die Kontrolle

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Gelsenkirchenerin: „Ab 17 Uhr gehe ich nicht mehr nach draußen“

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