Gelsenkirchenerin verrät, wie Engagement glücklich macht
Sibylle Raudies

Barbara Kols-Teichmann hat eine schwere Erkrankung gut überlebt. Im WAZ-Gespräch erklärt sie, was Glück für sie bedeutet.
Foto: Olaf Ziegler
Gelsenkirchen. Familie und Engagement sind für Barbara Kols-Teichmann die Basis für Glück. Aber die Gelsenkirchenerin weiß: Jeder muss den eigenen Weg finden.
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