Gelsenkirchen.
Das Gelsenkirchener Caritas-Team berät in Lebenskrisen aller Art. Familien, schwule Paare, Senioren und Alleinerziehende nutzen das Angebot.
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Beratung für alle Altersgruppen, Schichten, Kulturen und Geschlechter
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Häufig führen zu hohe Erwartungen zu schweren Konflikten
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„Unser Vorteil ist, dass wir neutral sind“
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