Ehrenamt

Was eine Essenerin (94) an ihrem Hospizbegleiter schätzt

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Verstehen sich sehr gut: Der ehrenamtliche Hospizbegleiter Martin Poerting (l.) und Edith von Streit aus Essen.

Verstehen sich sehr gut: Der ehrenamtliche Hospizbegleiter Martin Poerting (l.) und Edith von Streit aus Essen.

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Essener Süden.  Eine 94-jährige Essenerin möchte ihren Hospizbegleiter nicht missen. Sie erzählt, warum es ein gutes Gefühl ist, eine solche Betreuung zu haben.

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