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Transsexueller berichtet: So wurde ich vom Mädchen zum Mann

Gibt es nur Mann und Frau? „Das habe ich lange gedacht“, bekannte Klaus Pfeffer, Generalvikar des Bistums, „doch so einfach ist es nicht.“

Gibt es nur Mann und Frau? „Das habe ich lange gedacht“, bekannte Klaus Pfeffer, Generalvikar des Bistums, „doch so einfach ist es nicht.“

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Essen.  Podiumsdiskussion in Essen: Ein Transsexueller erzählt seine Geschichte. Und ein hoher Bistums-Vertreter findet überraschend deutliche Worte.

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„Schon im Kindergarten merkte ich, dass ich irgendwie anders bin“

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Noch heute stehen Mord-Drohungen im Raum

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Gewissenskonflikte: „Ist das gegen Gott, wenn ich anders sein will?“

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Ahmed hatte Depressionen

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