Silberhochzeit: Essener Paar mit Handicap meistert Alltag

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Silberhochzeit: Essener Paar mit Handicap meistert Alltag

31.08.2022, 15:51 | Lesedauer: 5 Minuten

Betty und Jochen Lipski freuen sich auf die Silberhochzeit. Sie verbringen die Tage meist in der Wohngruppe des Integrationsmodells in Essen-Bergerhausen.

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Essen-Bergerhausen. Betty und Jochen Lipski aus Essen haben sich in einer Behinderten-WG kennengelernt. Warum ihr Alltag als Ehepaar seit 25 Jahren gut funktioniert.

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Beide Essener haben eine Lernschwäche und ergänzen sich mit ihren Fähigkeiten

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Tagsüber hält sich das Ehepaar meist in der Wohngruppe in Bergerhausen auf

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Ejf Ipdi{fju nju tfjofs Cfuuz xbs kfefogbmmt ejf sjdiujhf Foutdifjevoh; ‟Ebt ibcf jdi ojf cfsfvu/”

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