Essen-Bergerhausen.
Gisela (85) und Wolfgang Pfotenhauer (87) aus Bergerhausen sind 65 Jahre verheiratet. Sie engagieren sich ehrenamtlich. Wie ihre Liebe begann.
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Das Paar lernte sich auf einer Familienfeier kennen
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