„Habe Angst vor dem Abgang“: Frau Petter (63) im Hospiz
Iris Müller

Im Hospiz werden den Gästen viele Wünsche erfüllt. Die schwer kranke Petra Petter (63) wohnt seit Anfang August in der Einrichtung in Essen-Bedingrade und will eigentlich gar nicht an den Tod denken.
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Essen-Bedingrade. Sie wohnt im Hospiz und sagt: „Sterben ist nicht so mein Ding“. Genau das wird aber bald passieren. Petra Petter ist 63 Jahre alt und krebskrank.
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Palliative Versorgung in Essener Hospiz
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Team im Essener Hospiz erfüllt letzte Wünsche der Gäste
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