Essen-Rüttenscheid.
Die Frau eines Essener Physiotherapeuten erkrankt an Depressionen und versucht, sich das Leben zu nehmen. Wie er als Angehöriger damit umgeht.
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Rüttenscheider Physiotherapeut kämpfte mit Selbstzweifeln
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Arbeit hilft Rüttenscheider Physiotherapeuten beim Verarbeiten
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