Zu sechst: So kommt keiner in einer großen Familie zu kurz

Debbie Davies und Sebastian Voß mit Sam (7), Kimberly (1), Lindsay (9) und Amy (3).
Foto: Thomas Gödde / FUNKE Foto Services
Bottrop. Die Jüngste ist ein Jahr alt, die Älteste neun: Mit vier Kindern ist bei der Familie Davies/Voß viel los. Einblick in den Alltag zu sechst.
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Der Wunsch nach einer großen Familie wuchs nach und nach
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Familienvater: „Manchmal geht es an die Substanz, aber es macht auch Spaß“
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Gemeinsame Ausflüge aufs Erdbeerfeld oder in den Zoo
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Familie wünscht sich gleiche Rahmenbedingungen für alle Bottroper Kitas
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