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Häusliche Gewalt in Bochum: Betroffene schafft den Ausstieg

Häusliche Gewalt geschieht meist im Verborgenen. Auch die Bochumer Polizei erhält täglich Anzeigen von Betroffenen und Nachbarn.

Häusliche Gewalt geschieht meist im Verborgenen. Auch die Bochumer Polizei erhält täglich Anzeigen von Betroffenen und Nachbarn.

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Bochum.  Häusliche Gewalt findet täglich statt. Doch Ängste halten Opfer davon ab, sich zu befreien. So fand eine Betroffene Schutz im Frauenhaus Bochum.

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Betroffene in Bochum: „Wir waren für ihn wie der letzte Dreck“

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Gewaltopfer: „Wenn Vater sagt, er bringt uns um, dann kann man dem glauben“

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