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Alleinerziehende in Bochum helfen sich gegenseitig

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Zusammen ist man weniger allein:

Zusammen ist man weniger allein:

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Bochum.   Selbsthilfegruppe trifft sich monatlich zum Frühstück und Austausch. Für einige ist das die erste Gelegenheit seit Tagen, um durchzuatmen.

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Wichtige Atempausen

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