Transidentität

Transidente Pfarrerin Elke Spörkel will anderen Mut machen

Elke Spörkel geht offen mit ihrer Transidentität um.

Elke Spörkel geht offen mit ihrer Transidentität um.

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Isselburg.  Elke Spörkels Wandel vom „Herrn Pfarrer zur Frau Pfarrerin“ begann vor zehn Jahren. Heute ist sie dankbar für das neue Leben, das sie führt.

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Schmerzlicher Prozess

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Bruch mit der Gemeinde

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Dankbarkeit für zweites Leben

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Politisches Engagement bei den Grünen

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